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Resource Yourself

Resource Yourself

Hosted by: Sefora Ray

The Resource Yourself podcast is the place where people come to resource themselves—emotionally, mentally, and relationally—so they can create relationships, a life and a world that feel more secure, connected, and...

Episodes

39-Letting More Love In: 4 Ways to Receive More Support and Feel Held

Season #2

Letting More Love In: 4 Ways to Receive More Support and Feel Held Episode Summary In this episode, Sefora explores what it really means to receive love and support… and why so many people struggle to let it in, even...
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38-Creating A Flow State in Dating (and any other area of your life)

Season #2

🎧 Creating a Flow State in Dating (and All Other Areas of Your Life) What if dating didn’t feel exhausting, frustrating, or full of resistance? What if it could actually feel easy, energizing, and even fun? In this...
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37-Secure Expectations High-Capacity Folks Hold in Dating

Season #2

3 Secure Expectations High-Capacity Folks Hold in Dating Episode Description Most people think secure attachment is about confidence, independence, or “not being needy.” But secure dating is not about suppressing your...
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36-Going From Grinch to Whovian, A Daily Practice: Yuletide Bonus 03

Season #2

From Grinch to Whovian, A daily practice In this Yuletide Renewal bonus episode, we explore the real spirit of Christmas… not the sparkly, Hallmark version, but the deeper story we keep telling every year for a...
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35-Held By Life Visualization: Yuletide Bonus 02

Season #2

Held by Life Visualization: Yuletide Bonus #2 In this special Yuletide bonus episode, we rest together inside a gentle hypnotic experience designed to calm your nervous system and soften the ache of aloneness. You’re...
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34-When You’re Here, But Want to Be There: Yuletide Bonus 01

Season #2

When You’re Here, But Want to Be There: When the Light Has Begun, But You Can’t Feel It Yet Episode Summary In this Day Two bonus episode of the Yuletide Renewal, we meet the day just after the Winter Solstice — the...
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33-Letting the Dark Hold You on The Solstice, Yule Resourcing 00

Season #2

Letting the Dark Hold You on The Solstice, Yule Resourcing 01 On the Solstice, Rest, and Being Held by Life Episode Notes Today is the Winter Solstice, the longest night of the year in the Northern Hemisphere. The...
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32-There is ALWAYS a solution

Season #2

Welcome to Season 2 of the Resource Yourself Podcast. In this episode, I reintroduce myself and the deeper intention behind this work — not just attachment healing in relationships, but learning how to live from the...
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31-Staying Steady When the Vision Feels Far Away

Season #2

In this episode of the Resource Yourself podcast, we explore what to do when you have a vision for your life — a secure relationship, a fulfilling career, a big world-changing goal — but you’re not there yet. You’ll...
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30-Return to Inner Knowing (Resourcing Practice)

Season #2

🎧 Episode Title: Return to Inner Knowing (Resourcing Practice) 📝 Episode Description: If you’ve been spinning in circles, stuck in overthinking, or just craving a moment of deep stillness—this is for you. In this...
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29-Boundaries Like a Bad A**

Season #2

💬 Episode Summary: If the word boundary makes your nervous system flinch a little — this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, Sefora shares why most people (especially anxious attachers) confuse complaints...
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28-Reclaiming Parts of Yourself From Others

Season #2

Episode Title: Reclaiming the Parts of You That Love Left Behind 🌀 Episode Summary: In today’s resourcing audio, I’m guiding you through a deeply restorative practice to help you reclaim the parts of yourself you’ve...
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